One of the most confusing things to me, at this point, is...
Boys. And Girls. More so, when they're together. Couple-wise. How does a girl, or guy, know exactly when God is speaking to them about who is "right" for who... what makes it "right" that they're together?
And HOW in the world is it that 2 extreme or semi-extreme opposites attract? That is just alien to me. Why not 2 peop's who are mostly the same, but have few differences that compliment eachother? I heard the theory that the 2 same people would eventually get bored (with eachother) because there's no real balance to that relationship. But I need more than that.. to understand why 2 similar people can't be compatible together. I can understand that 2 similar people, with a lot in common, can be great friends... but is the level "friends" as far as they can take it?
And yes, I heard about the 'Hand Illustration" where when 2 opposites come together, each is like one hand, they come together and as they hold on to one another, weaknesses of one are filled by the others strengths and so on... BUT....
Okay, well.. I'm thinking of a room full of people. There are diff groups, mostly people who have same interests are together. Let's say there's one side of the room, it's clumped with extroverts. On the other side, there's scatteredness of introverts. How is it that one from each side will cross paths if they're on their own side of the room?
Were we "middle-people" forgotten about?
I'm wrestling with this so.. let's take me for example. There's evidence of both extrovertness and introvertness in me at the same time. I LOVE being with people, can be outgoing and loud, at the same time, there's a side of me that LOVES being alone (finding I need to recuperate from being in the crowd sometimes), I need to be alone in order to feel a bit "sane", and I can be quiet and to myself, and even shy.
Do "middle" people jus mingle with "middle" people or what?
Hey, you got thoughts or stories regarding this, I'm all ears.
Who thinks of these things 2AM in the morning. Guess that's me. My mind jus' doesn't stop.
Humor me:) Jus' help me understand this Opposites Attract/Couple's Theology a lil bit more... all seems like noncense, nonsense, nonsence.. at 2 in the morning I can't spell noncence wright.
And HOW in the world is it that 2 extreme or semi-extreme opposites attract? That is just alien to me. Why not 2 peop's who are mostly the same, but have few differences that compliment eachother? I heard the theory that the 2 same people would eventually get bored (with eachother) because there's no real balance to that relationship. But I need more than that.. to understand why 2 similar people can't be compatible together. I can understand that 2 similar people, with a lot in common, can be great friends... but is the level "friends" as far as they can take it?
And yes, I heard about the 'Hand Illustration" where when 2 opposites come together, each is like one hand, they come together and as they hold on to one another, weaknesses of one are filled by the others strengths and so on... BUT....
Okay, well.. I'm thinking of a room full of people. There are diff groups, mostly people who have same interests are together. Let's say there's one side of the room, it's clumped with extroverts. On the other side, there's scatteredness of introverts. How is it that one from each side will cross paths if they're on their own side of the room?
Were we "middle-people" forgotten about?
I'm wrestling with this so.. let's take me for example. There's evidence of both extrovertness and introvertness in me at the same time. I LOVE being with people, can be outgoing and loud, at the same time, there's a side of me that LOVES being alone (finding I need to recuperate from being in the crowd sometimes), I need to be alone in order to feel a bit "sane", and I can be quiet and to myself, and even shy.
Do "middle" people jus mingle with "middle" people or what?
Hey, you got thoughts or stories regarding this, I'm all ears.
Who thinks of these things 2AM in the morning. Guess that's me. My mind jus' doesn't stop.
Humor me:) Jus' help me understand this Opposites Attract/Couple's Theology a lil bit more... all seems like noncense, nonsense, nonsence.. at 2 in the morning I can't spell noncence wright.
posted by jmw at 1:44 AM
1 Comments:
Where 2 people are joined by marriage, no mankind shall separate.
Other than that, there are a lot of couples out there who have the same interest, hobbies etc. And again alot of couples out there who have different interest, hobbies etc. but somehow manage to stay connected. Sometimes one's weakness is complimented by another's strength. Personality types, there are some people who can handle doing the same thing over and over again, can read you like a book kind of knowledge, who can't handle changes, so if there partner is doing the same thing with them over and over again, there okay as long as there is no sudden changes. Well dishes are waiting, so gotta go.
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